終於忙完了!~還有一堂就完成我今年夏天的課程....其實心中很想在七月or八月時take多一科....可是.....不知道啦....再想一想吧!!~~
現在終於忙完之後開始有點怕....怕事做....怕會悶.....怕會變懶....希望可以找些什麼來幹吧!!~~
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2009年6月25日 星期四
2009年6月4日 星期四
2009年5月21日 星期四
關係/找不到的獎勵
人同人之間的關係真的很重要!!! 有人覺得你要對我好是天經地義...而我不用對你好.....聽了這個理論之後, 我十分不開心....為什麼只有一個人去給....一個人去收?? 關係的英文是relationship....是要兩個人relate先可以有ship的!!! 一個人怎樣去relate呢?? 關係是要兩個人去給, 兩個人去收的!!!!
不論是什麼關係.....情人還是親人....都是一個雙向的關係...假如只是要有一個人去唯係這個關係的話, 實在太辛苦啦!!!....但如果還是要做的話就要去找那找不到的獎勵!!!
*這是我的theory*....每一件事都有好有壞....我一直想信每個人對別人做的好事就算他不想視好....可是如果喜歡的話還是會有一點好的在潛意識內, 不知覺的做出來!!~~可能很難找....可是我相信是有的!!!! 小小的都是.....因為在一個單向的relationship內, 這小小的要upkeep我們對這關係的"生命"!!!~ 最好是久了這個單向關係會變成雙向關係!!~~如果沒有的話....就要看那"找不到的獎勵"可以待多久了!!~~
簡單來講, 就是要去好的那裡去想...船到橋頭自然直....總會有辦法的!!~~
2009年4月17日 星期五
不安/交談
前幾天看"國光幫幫忙"的時候特然讓我發現了一件事....就是老爸的擔憂....
他們人到了一個年紀就會有很多擔心.....很多不安....有怕失敗...怕失業...怕家中地位不保...怕死....有時候我們可能會覺得他們想太多.....可是這些全都是每個人都會怕的事吧!!~~
可是說到家中地位不保時....說到孩子都不跟爸媽講話的時候....有一點讓我覺得應該留意!!~~
他們說到.....孩子都不會跟爸媽說他們心中在想什麼....如果我們不說....爸媽是不會知道的!!! 我想一想覺得對喔....他們覺得我們不雖要他們啦....就前幾天.....我爸媽就問我很多問題.....可是我就是不答....難怪他們會這麼不安啦.....
可是話說回來....有時候真的很難跟他們說那麼多....因為有時候他們真的很不能明白我們....越是說不可以....我們越是要做....(聽下來好像在講我一個表弟哦....) 但有時候, 當兩方面可以輕鬆談談的話就讓雙方都說一說呀.....但千萬不要不讓任何一方講完他的想法.....你不去聽人家的話, 人家怎樣去聽你的呢??~~
A couple of days ago....i was watching this TV show....and it talked about the worries of a middle aged man.....
it say that when a man reach that age, there are sooo many things they worry about....they worry that they will lose their job, they will be unsuccessful, they will lose their position in their family, and they will lose their life.....sometimes i think they just think too much...but then who doesn't worry about those things.....it's just because of their age, they worry MORE!!!!
but when they were talking about how they worry they will lose their position in their family, they talked about how the kids won't talk to the parents anymore....and that it sort of attracts my attention....
they say something about parents will never know what we think about unless we tell them....if we don't say it...they'll never ever know what in our mind....they want to know what's going on with our lives...and they feel that if we don't talk to them, we don't need them anymore.....it's just like a couple of days ago when my parents keep asking me these questions....and i sorta refuse to answer them....no wonder they are so worried.....
but then again....sometimes it's just hard to talk to them....sometimes they just don't understand how we feel....the more you say no to something....the more we want to do it....(sound like a cousin of mine....*cough*) but when both side can sit down casually and talk about it, then speak your mind!!! but don't ever stop someone from saying their mind....because if you are not willing to accept someone else's opinions, how do you expect someone else to accept yours right??
他們人到了一個年紀就會有很多擔心.....很多不安....有怕失敗...怕失業...怕家中地位不保...怕死....有時候我們可能會覺得他們想太多.....可是這些全都是每個人都會怕的事吧!!~~
可是說到家中地位不保時....說到孩子都不跟爸媽講話的時候....有一點讓我覺得應該留意!!~~
他們說到.....孩子都不會跟爸媽說他們心中在想什麼....如果我們不說....爸媽是不會知道的!!! 我想一想覺得對喔....他們覺得我們不雖要他們啦....就前幾天.....我爸媽就問我很多問題.....可是我就是不答....難怪他們會這麼不安啦.....
可是話說回來....有時候真的很難跟他們說那麼多....因為有時候他們真的很不能明白我們....越是說不可以....我們越是要做....(聽下來好像在講我一個表弟哦....) 但有時候, 當兩方面可以輕鬆談談的話就讓雙方都說一說呀.....但千萬不要不讓任何一方講完他的想法.....你不去聽人家的話, 人家怎樣去聽你的呢??~~
A couple of days ago....i was watching this TV show....and it talked about the worries of a middle aged man.....
it say that when a man reach that age, there are sooo many things they worry about....they worry that they will lose their job, they will be unsuccessful, they will lose their position in their family, and they will lose their life.....sometimes i think they just think too much...but then who doesn't worry about those things.....it's just because of their age, they worry MORE!!!!
but when they were talking about how they worry they will lose their position in their family, they talked about how the kids won't talk to the parents anymore....and that it sort of attracts my attention....
they say something about parents will never know what we think about unless we tell them....if we don't say it...they'll never ever know what in our mind....they want to know what's going on with our lives...and they feel that if we don't talk to them, we don't need them anymore.....it's just like a couple of days ago when my parents keep asking me these questions....and i sorta refuse to answer them....no wonder they are so worried.....
but then again....sometimes it's just hard to talk to them....sometimes they just don't understand how we feel....the more you say no to something....the more we want to do it....(sound like a cousin of mine....*cough*) but when both side can sit down casually and talk about it, then speak your mind!!! but don't ever stop someone from saying their mind....because if you are not willing to accept someone else's opinions, how do you expect someone else to accept yours right??
2009年3月29日 星期日
港女/詞語
近年來常常會聽到有人會說"港女"這個問題....如果不知道的話可以上YAHOO or GOOGLE 找一下.....應該不會很難找.....今天晚上, 我跟一班朋友, 有男有女的, 在談這一個問題.....一講就講了三個小時....
說真的.....我覺得"港女"這個詞語是有問題的....而我想信不是每個香港的女生都是"港女"但我不可以排除有一些香港的女生是....問題是她們覺不覺得這是一個問題!!!!
我不想在這裡做一個很長的討論關於"港女"這個問題.....我覺得....如果女生不覺得那些問題是問題的話.....那這個女生就是"港女"......如果我們可以找一個比較好的詞語來型容這一類女生....我想信會有比較小的火爆討論.....當然....我覺得同樣道理可以在"港男"這個詞語身上.....
這是我的想法.....如個你們想的話可以留言說一說你們對這一個topic的想法.....請不要放火燒人.....謝謝......~~
Recently, there are many people disscusing about the term "Hong Kong Girl" (direct translation from chinese....notice the quote)....if you don't know what that means, you could probably do a search on YAHOO or GOOGLE....and maybe you'll be able to find something about that....(although i doubt you'll be able to find what i'm talking about if you search for it typing english....if you couldn't find anything online....but you REALLY want to know what kinda girl i'm talking about....let me know....i'll talk to you privately.....)
tonight, i went out with some friends, guys and girls, and we discussed about this topic for 3 whole hours.....and the result is REALLY interesting.....
i am not going to go in detail of what "Hong Kong Girl" means....coz that would be WAY too long to talk about...but i think the problem comes from using "Hong Kong Girl" to represent that type of girl.....which honestly i think is unfair for regular Hong Kong girls....but i have to admit....there ARE some girl that deserve to be called "Hong Kong Girl" as well.....
to me, the biggest critria to determine if you are a "Hong Kong Girl" or not, is that if you (as a girl) find that if those "habits" of "Hong Kong Girl" fits you.....if you see that they are ON you....and yet you don't find them as a problem, then you are a "Hong Kong Girl".....if we could find another term to replace "Hong Kong Girl", i think the war of the sexes will be a lot less firey.....of course....the same goes for the term "Hong Kong Guy".....
this is just my opinion....if you have something you would like to share, feel free to leave a message here...and we can disscuss this peacefully....please refrain from burning people here!!~~
thanz~~
說真的.....我覺得"港女"這個詞語是有問題的....而我想信不是每個香港的女生都是"港女"但我不可以排除有一些香港的女生是....問題是她們覺不覺得這是一個問題!!!!
我不想在這裡做一個很長的討論關於"港女"這個問題.....我覺得....如果女生不覺得那些問題是問題的話.....那這個女生就是"港女"......如果我們可以找一個比較好的詞語來型容這一類女生....我想信會有比較小的火爆討論.....當然....我覺得同樣道理可以在"港男"這個詞語身上.....
這是我的想法.....如個你們想的話可以留言說一說你們對這一個topic的想法.....請不要放火燒人.....謝謝......~~
Recently, there are many people disscusing about the term "Hong Kong Girl" (direct translation from chinese....notice the quote)....if you don't know what that means, you could probably do a search on YAHOO or GOOGLE....and maybe you'll be able to find something about that....(although i doubt you'll be able to find what i'm talking about if you search for it typing english....if you couldn't find anything online....but you REALLY want to know what kinda girl i'm talking about....let me know....i'll talk to you privately.....)
tonight, i went out with some friends, guys and girls, and we discussed about this topic for 3 whole hours.....and the result is REALLY interesting.....
i am not going to go in detail of what "Hong Kong Girl" means....coz that would be WAY too long to talk about...but i think the problem comes from using "Hong Kong Girl" to represent that type of girl.....which honestly i think is unfair for regular Hong Kong girls....but i have to admit....there ARE some girl that deserve to be called "Hong Kong Girl" as well.....
to me, the biggest critria to determine if you are a "Hong Kong Girl" or not, is that if you (as a girl) find that if those "habits" of "Hong Kong Girl" fits you.....if you see that they are ON you....and yet you don't find them as a problem, then you are a "Hong Kong Girl".....if we could find another term to replace "Hong Kong Girl", i think the war of the sexes will be a lot less firey.....of course....the same goes for the term "Hong Kong Guy".....
this is just my opinion....if you have something you would like to share, feel free to leave a message here...and we can disscuss this peacefully....please refrain from burning people here!!~~
thanz~~
2009年3月19日 星期四
天氣/感動
天氣變幻無常....一時下雨...一時下雪...時冷...時熱...真的難以估計祂明天會怎樣.....
這就如人生一樣.....變化很多....真的無法預算明天是好是壞....
有一個良好的計劃是一件好事...計劃使人有目標, 會努力....有計劃可以令很多事容易做到....但最大的變數....還是命運吧!!~~
有人叫命運做天意, 做緣份...我是基督教...我信的是我神的指意!!~
"命裏有時終雖有,命裏無時莫強求"....做人如果太在意的話好容易會瘋掉....不要在意太多呢!!~~
最近, 有個朋友msn個status寫着"今天我不能死...因為明天會更好".....看完這句....我有點感動....希望大家有同感啦!!~~
Weather's always changing these couple of days....sometimes raining....sometimes snowing...sometimes hot....sometimes cold....it's hard to predict if it is good or bad weather next...it sorta like life as well....there's lots of changes as well....it is hard to predict what's going to happen for you next....
it still good to have plan...coz plans give you a goal....it motivates you to work hard.....but at the end of the day, it still rely heavily on fate.
There's lots of different meaning for fate.....destiny, karma, chi....whatever.....As a Christian myself, i call it the will of God....
if it going to be your....IT'S going to be yours....if it's not yours....there's no way you can get it....don't be so stubborn about so many things....otherwise you'll go crazy!!~~
Recently, i have a friend's MSN's status saids "I can't die today...coz tomorrow will be better"....i'm very touch by this short and simple phase...and i hope you will feel the same!!~~
2009年3月4日 星期三
傾計/擔心
好開心可以同一個老友傾計....雖然時間唔忍耐....但係我們天南地北...無所不談...將我們的心事一一講出!!~
我們由我想番香港....講到佢想番香港.....再講到在溫哥華幾難搵女朋友.....去到講係香港只要個男仔肯開聲o的女仔就OK(只不過我覺得唔係真係咁易...) 林林種種....全在短短的一個小時內....
有時好嘢唔雖要太長....雖然我想同佢傾多一會兒....但因要上堂....所以唔得.....佢好灰好唔開心....但我知道佢會OK嘅....因為佢之前再難過都過過......我信你!!~~
雖然如始...我是依然會久唔久CHECKo下佢....倍o下佢.....等佢知道係呢段人生路上佢有friend係佢身邊支持佢....我地永遠都唔會alone....因為神永遠與我們同在!!~~
這就是我所信的.....係你嘅,一定係你嘅.....唔係你嘅, 點都唔係你嘅.......擔心咁多做咩呢??~~如果
你好想要一樣嘢....咪努力啲做好啲....係你嘅,一定係你架!!!~~
It was great to talk to a friend that you haven't talk to for a while...and regretablly...we didn't have a lot of time to talk today...but it was nice....coz we shared a lot of things in our mind~
from me going back to HK...to him going back to HK....to how it is almost impossible to get a girl in Vancouver.....to how "a guy just have to say it" to get a girl in HK (although i beg to differ).....from the sky to ground...we talked about everything.....in merely one hour!!
sometimes, great things doesn't need to be in length...i wish i could spend more time with this friend coz he seems trouble and depress...but i know he will get over it....coz he got over stuff WAY tougher!!~I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!!
However, I would still like to check up on this friend every once in a while....so that he knows that he is not alone in the journey that's call life.....we are never alone.....God will always be there with us!!~
That's my believe. If it happens, it happens...if it doesn't, then it's never meant to happen....no use worrying about it all the time. If you really want something....try harder...if it happen it will happen...
我們由我想番香港....講到佢想番香港.....再講到在溫哥華幾難搵女朋友.....去到講係香港只要個男仔肯開聲o的女仔就OK(只不過我覺得唔係真係咁易...) 林林種種....全在短短的一個小時內....
有時好嘢唔雖要太長....雖然我想同佢傾多一會兒....但因要上堂....所以唔得.....佢好灰好唔開心....但我知道佢會OK嘅....因為佢之前再難過都過過......我信你!!~~
雖然如始...我是依然會久唔久CHECKo下佢....倍o下佢.....等佢知道係呢段人生路上佢有friend係佢身邊支持佢....我地永遠都唔會alone....因為神永遠與我們同在!!~~
這就是我所信的.....係你嘅,一定係你嘅.....唔係你嘅, 點都唔係你嘅.......擔心咁多做咩呢??~~如果
你好想要一樣嘢....咪努力啲做好啲....係你嘅,一定係你架!!!~~
It was great to talk to a friend that you haven't talk to for a while...and regretablly...we didn't have a lot of time to talk today...but it was nice....coz we shared a lot of things in our mind~
from me going back to HK...to him going back to HK....to how it is almost impossible to get a girl in Vancouver.....to how "a guy just have to say it" to get a girl in HK (although i beg to differ).....from the sky to ground...we talked about everything.....in merely one hour!!
sometimes, great things doesn't need to be in length...i wish i could spend more time with this friend coz he seems trouble and depress...but i know he will get over it....coz he got over stuff WAY tougher!!~I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!!
However, I would still like to check up on this friend every once in a while....so that he knows that he is not alone in the journey that's call life.....we are never alone.....God will always be there with us!!~
That's my believe. If it happens, it happens...if it doesn't, then it's never meant to happen....no use worrying about it all the time. If you really want something....try harder...if it happen it will happen...
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